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Help! No One Understands What My Toddler is Saying

One of the things we hear most often from parents of young children is that someone – a distant cousin, a new neighbor, the pediatrician – doesn’t understand what their child is saying. Without meeting the child it’s hard for a speech therapist to determine what that means and what recommendations to make to the parent. Should they schedule a speech evaluation? Is it normal for people not to understand the child?


In this article we will discuss:


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Children Intelligibility Milestons

One of the formulas we cite often to parents who want to quickly determine if their child’s intelligibility (or speech clarity) in conversation with unfamiliar listeners, or “strangers” is normal is as follows:


AGE IN YEARS / 4 x 100 = % UNDERSTOOD BY STRANGERS

Child aged 1 = 1/4 or 25% intelligible to strangers Child aged 2 = 2/4 or 50% intelligible to strangers Child aged 3 = 3/4 or 75% intelligible to strangers Child aged 4 = 4/4 or 100% intelligible to strangers



What this means, is that for example, a 2-year-old in conversation with an unfamiliar listener (distant relative, a pediatrician who sees the child twice a year) would only have 50% of what they say understood.


This guide gives parents a starting point to determine if their child’s speech is progressing typically or if they should consider an evaluation by a speech therapist.


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Speech therapy for child and adult

Of course, a speech therapist goes into a lot more detail to determine if a child’s speech is developing on track or if treatment is warranted. For example, we use normative data that looks at each speech sound they make (“t” sound, “k” sound etc.) and determine if they are producing all of the sounds appropriate for their age.


If you or the people your child lives with still don’t understand what your child is saying, then intervention might be a good idea. Remember, speech therapy does no harm. To your child it’s just another opportunity to play.


Are you wondering what speech sounds your child should be saying at their age? Download our free and simple chart here.

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At Better Speech, we offer online speech therapy services convenient for you and tailored to your child's individual needs. Our services are affordable and effective - get Better Speech now.


 

About the Author

Lenora Edwards


I am ASHA Board Certified Speech Language Pathologist and Chief Knowledge Officer with Better Speech. Since obtaining my CCC’s in 2010, I have worked with individuals of all ages from little ones who are learning to understand and express themselves to adults who want to improve their speaking skills and become a more fluent and effective communicator. I love to teach and educate others, in my spare time I like reading, cooking and traveling!

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