Language Development in the First Years - Podcast
Updated: Aug 25
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Parents have a lot of questions regarding their children's language development in the first years: does it happen on its own, or do you need to help your child to say their first words? Join us in the new episode of Parenting in the First 3 Years Podcast, where we discuss how children learn the language, what you can do to support that language development, and some very practical tips for you as you go about your everyday life with your child.
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Episode highlights
It is very important to offer the language and talk to your children in the first years because this is how they learn: through social observation.
Receptive language develops much faster than expressive language: even though children can't say as much as they would like to say, for all that you're probably talking to them, they are still understanding it.
It is also important to provide children with opportunities to observe their parents and caregivers talking to other adults and to get them exposed to all of those different kinds of conversations. Children need to socially understand how to maneuver through talking to a peer versus talking to an adult versus talking to a sibling.
Support your child's language development
So what parents and caregivers can do to give infants and toddlers a solid start in communicating with others? They can follow tips on how to support your child through exposure to natural conversations and observing others as well as being a part of complex conversations, for example:
keep talking to your children, and sing with them;
when you're reading stories, use voices & point to items;
make sure that they can see your face when you speak to them, be expressive with your face;
as you're talking, be playful, make it fun, make it entertaining, and keep everyone as happy and engaged as possible.
And if you have any questions or concerns, whereas with your child's language skills or early intervention, get started with Better Speech, and we will offer you as much guidance as possible.
Frequently Asked Questions
What are the most important language milestones in the first two years of life?
By 12 months, most babies say one or two words and understand simple commands. By 24 months, toddlers typically use around 50 words and start combining two words together, like 'more milk.' Every child develops at their own pace, but tracking these general milestones helps you spot any concerns early and act on them quickly.
How can I tell if my toddler has a language delay versus a normal variation in development?
If your child is not babbling by 12 months, not saying any words by 16 months, or not combining words by 24 months, those are signs worth discussing with a professional. A speech-language pathologist can conduct a thorough evaluation and give you a clear, personalized picture of where your child stands and what to do next.
What everyday activities best support language growth in babies and toddlers?
Talking, reading aloud, and singing to your child every day are among the most powerful things you can do. Narrate your daily routines, ask simple questions, and give your child time to respond, even before they have words. These back-and-forth interactions build the neural connections that underpin strong communication skills for life.
Does screen time really affect early language development?
Research consistently shows that passive screen time, especially for children under 18 months, offers little language benefit and can reduce the quality talk-time children need most. Video chatting with family members is the one meaningful exception. The best language learning still happens through real, face-to-face interaction with caregivers throughout the day.
How do I get professional speech therapy for my child without a long wait?
Finding timely help can feel overwhelming, but it does not have to be. Better Speech connects families with licensed speech-language pathologists online, accepts most major insurance plans, and has no waitlists, so your child can start receiving expert support quickly. Early intervention makes a significant difference, so reaching out sooner rather than later is always the right move.
About the Author
Aycen Zambuto
I’m a seasoned educator in speech therapy with over six years of experience helping people navigate challenges in communication. Throughout this time, I’ve found joy in guiding individuals through a variety of therapeutic journeys, from toddlers with apraxia to seniors with dysphonia.
I’m passionate about demystifying this complex world of speech therapy and helping readers around the globe achieve clear and effective communication. When I’m not writing about speech, you’ll often find me reading, traveling or spending time with friends and family.
